A lot of times I have young guys that show more than a passing interest in me.
I have to admit it is a bit flattering to have guys half my age hitting on me, though we all know WHY most of them are doing it.
Then
there are a few that fall into a more serious category. They seem to
have a genuine interest in establishing a real relationship. That's
when I start getting confused.
Let's
say he shares a lot of my interests. Likes the same music, can hold a
conversation with me, and is really an interesting person. He is
someone I think I wouldn't mind hanging out with.
But
he's younger. HOW MUCH YOUNGER IS TOO YOUNG??? Anyone who is 8 years
younger than me is closer to my daughter's age. I don't know that I'm
comfortable with that.
It
is said age is only a number, and that's not entirely true. It is a
number, but it is not only a number. There are differences in
perspective based on how long you have lived. Understanding comes with
age.
How
can I decide how young is too young? Perhaps I need to look the other
direction? If a fellow is older than me, how old is too old? Perhaps
that would clarify things for me.
I
would date a guy 10 years older than me with no thought about it. 15
years .... if the fellow shared a lot of my interests. 20 years.....
that's pushing it. I can't see me dating someone that's 70 at this
point in time. I won't categorically say no, but I do doubt it.
So?
I guess I would consider a fellow who was 43 or so, but any younger?
Nah. I think that would be pushing the limits of rationality
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